If not introduced to bathing and grooming at a young age, they can be a fearful of the new experience. With time and gentle handling, they can come to accept and even enjoy that which is unfamiliar to them. If your cat shows signs of stress, fear, and will not relax, we will stop immediately. One way to calm the most aggressive cat is to put him in the tub and gentle soak his feet and belly. Oddly enough, this can take them out of fight mode. Sometimes cats do have a 10-20 second mini freak out when we first turn on the water and apply it to them. We let them work through this fear, realize they are not in danger, and MOST cats calm and relax under the warm water and the massage while soaping.
A dry bath, wiping them with a wet towel or putting powder in their hair and brushing it out. This would be unacceptable for dogs or humans, so why do cats get shortchanged? Real water baths with soap are the ONLY way to de-grease and clean a cat, just like a dog or human.
Experience and knowledge is everything, there is an art to calmly and safely bathing a cat.